In a genuine, heart-thumping romance, little acts of love—like a quick text or a sweet call—should flow like a river, no begging required!
If you find yourself hounding for these simple gestures, it’s a big flashing sign that you might be more of an option than a cherished priority.
WHAT DO I WANT?
I want to be loved effortlessly, like it’s as easy as breathing, without the need for a dramatic monologue or a heartfelt plea.
I deserve to be showered with love, just like everyone else does, because let’s face it—love should never feel like a chase or a tug-of-war.
Real love is like a gift given freely, with open arms and no strings attached. It’s all about wanting to share, not about wearing down our souls to earn a scrap.
For too long, I’ve danced around, trying to prove I’m worthy of love. I’ve bent over backward, compromised, and given everything until I was running on empty, hoping someone would finally see my sparkle and blast me with affection.
But here’s the revelation: true love doesn’t come from losing bits of myself!
The real MVP of your heart will be buzzing your phone every single day, because you’re the star of their morning thoughts and the last spark before they hit the hay!
It’s a walk in the park when there’s genuine affection.
No one should have to plead for the basics—your perfect match is out there, just waiting to sweep you off your feet!
“You become what you think about most… But you also attract what you think about most”
I attract positive and loving relationships.
I am worthy of love.
I am deserving of love.
I attract people who appreciate and value me.
I am surrounded by supportive and caring individuals.
I nurture my relationships with kindness and understanding.
I am deserving of love and affection.
I treat myself gently.
I look after my health and wellbeing. I eat nourishing food and exercise regularly. I connect with family and friends. I listen to my body. I allow myself more time to rest when I feel ill or have an injury.
I avoid comparing myself to others. I measure my performance by my own standards. I recognize my strengths. I give myself credit for making an effort.
When I make a mistake, I forgive myself and move on. I learn from experience.
Today, the language of togetherness and synergy is love. I hold strong to the deepest and most recognizable language that requires no explanation.
I welcome love in my life, and I give it to each person who I interact with.
We are surrounded by negativity, self-doubt, bad self-image. It is easy to fall into the pattern of negative thinking, dragging us down mentally and emotionally.
This is not something we can stop, because at times it will happen to each one of us.
But with affirmations, we can change all of that. One way to stay positive and keep our minds strong is to write affirmations every day. We need to be our own biggest fans.
As the saying goes, when you love yourself, you help others to love themselves. You give people around you reason to stop and say to themselves “I want to be more like her.”
Affirmations have the power to shape who you are, who you become, and what your life becomes.
The positive effects of self-love are real, and they are waiting for you!
Use this beautiful 100 page prompted affirmations journal to create a daily life-changing practice, with just 5 minutes from your day.
The Faces of the Garden encourage you to notice the beauty and guidance that surrounds you.
The birds that sing sweet notes of wisdom, the winds that whisper words of strength, the butterflies that signify profound transformation, the flowers that come back to blossom year after year.
There is so much to be seen, so much to be heard and so much to discover.
I shouldn’t have to earn my worth because we all shine just by being ourselves.
I just want to feel snug in love, knowing I’m valued, accepted, and adored—no masks, no performances!
A partner who chooses me every single day, not because I’ve twisted their arm, but because they genuinely see my worth and embrace my quirks.
I’m done begging for love or validation; I want something that feels honest, mutual, and as free as a bird!
Everyone deserves that cosy sweet love—a love that wraps around you without asking you to shrink or change. We all deserve a love that lifts us up instead of leaving us drained or questioning our worth.
And while waiting for that kind of love can feel like a marathon, I’m realizing that settling for less only leads to heartache. So, I’m making a promise to myself: no more begging, no more chasing, no more settling. I’m choosing to love myself enough to wait for the love I know I deserve because true love doesn’t require a chase—it just shows up, arms wide open, ready to give and receive.
Until that day arrives, I’ll keep an intimate, snug little spot in my heart for that love, trusting it’ll find me when the twinkling magical stars align.
Love on! xo, Lynnie
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