Ever heard of the “Let Them” theory?
Well, let me spill the tea!
The more I grow, the more I’m totally vibing with this “Let Them” mantra in my life and relationships.
It’s like a refreshing breeze of acceptance!
Even family can mistreat and disrespect you.
Oh boy, did it take me ages to figure this out! I used to put up with all sorts of nonsense just to keep folks around.
But guess what?
Real peeps don’t treat you like shit!
So, don’t be too understanding or forgiving that you turn a blind eye to the repeated disrespect—your worth is way too fabulous for that!
Let them be upset.
Let them judge you.
Let them misunderstand you.
Let them gossip about you,
Let them ignore you.
Let them be “right.”
Let them doubt you.
Let them not like you.
Because at the end of the day, they just don’t like themselves.
Let them not speak to you.
Let them run your name into the ground.
Let them make you out to be the villain.
Whatever it is that people want to say about you, let them!
Kindly step aside and LET THEM.
The hard truth is they know how much they are hurting you.
They just simply don’t care.
They did it knowing it could cause them to lose you.
They did it anyway.
People that love you care about how they make you feel.
The end.
Let them go.
There will be people that would rather lose you than be honest about what they’ve done to you.
Let them go.
The lack of respect was the closure.
The lack of apology was the closure.
The lack of care was the closure.
The lack of accountability was the closure.
The lack of honesty was the closure. Let them go.
Make the decision to no longer sit at tables where you might be the topic when you get up. Let them go.
You can still be kind.
From Broken Heart to Open Heart: When Letting Go is a Good Thing!
You can even still love them deeply.
But do it from the distance they created in their words and actions.
Access to you is a privilege they have proven they can’t be trusted with.
Let them go.
You don’t need to tell your side of the story.
Let them go.
It’s taken me a long time to get here.
Sleepless nights, countless tears, managing a range of emotions filled with anger, disappointment, confusion and deep hurt.
Lots of self reflection, self preservation, meditation, journaling, breathe work, yoga and seeking wisdom from those much wiser than me.
If you are struggling with this please know you are not alone.
We will never understand why hurt people hurt people.
But we can do the hard work to grow ourselves.
Because healed people do in fact heal people.
Don’t you dare let them steal your joy.
Don’t you dare let them steal your light.
Don’t you dare let them steal your peace.
You are in control of that.
Hold tight to what you can control and release your grip on what you can’t control…..
Let them go.
Vibe Attracts Tribe!
This Christmas Eve, let’s raise a toast to those fabulous folks who’ve waltzed into our lives, sprinkling joy just by being their amazing selves! 🌟
You know those ride-or-die pals who hold your hand during the stormy nights?
They’re the real MVPs for your sunniest days! ☀️
Our tribe is all about gratitude, love, and respect — a big ol’ hug of compassion that makes our strength soar like a thousand fireworks! 🎆
With our tribe, loneliness is just a myth!
They’re our lighthouse in the dark, reminding us that love knows no bounds.
No distance, no drama, no chaos can shake our unbreakable bond of love and peace!
Through thick and thin, we’ve got each other’s backs, and I love you all more than a double scoop of ice cream! 🍦 Cultured of course!
Most importantly, “I UNDERSTAND YOU” and treasure you beyond words!
Merry Christmas to our incredible tribe! Sending love and big hugs! Xxoo Lynnie ❤️
But don’t worry, we’re here to provide support!
This journey will assist you in creating a life that feels more fulfilling and less void of joy.
opt for adventure over overthinking!
Dive into the real world and give it a shot.
Trust me, you won’t wake up one day regretting the moments of Whispers of Magic!
However, if you keep hitting snooze on life, one day you may find yourself wondering how you ended up in that snooze zone.
So, embrace the thrilling journey ahead!
Forge a new path and shake things up.
Be unapologetically yourself.
Celebrate what ignites your passion and release what holds you back.
Let your inner compass lead the way—after all, you are the captain of this ship!
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