Some men can be abusive. Of course some women can be too. They don’t want to love you properly, but they don’t want to let you go either.
The more you give the less they appreciate, and the minute you’ve had enough and decide to forgive and let them go is when they are ready to love you and treat you right.
So you give then a chance in the hope they’ve changed – as there words tell you they have, only to realise it was all fake. You find the strength to walk away once more and here he comes again proclaiming his love for you and you give in, AGAIN.
A man showing anger and persistence to get you back once you try to break it off isn’t proof of love; its a knee jerk reaction and ABUSE.
A man kissing you or making flaccid attempts to be nice isn’t proof that he’s trying, its proof that he knows you well enough to know how to defuse you long enough to hook you once again.
Take away a toy, a little boy cries. Take away a relationship of convenience, a man cries. Just because he cries doesn’t mean we give him what he wants.
Stop listening to what he keeps promising and start watching what his actions actually keep telling you.
A lot of women don’t know what its like to be loved by a real man.
You know lust, you know joy, you know passion, you know lies, you know broken promises, you know the fear of abandonment.
It’s time we stopped chasing the idea of what love should be and recognise what love IS.
LOVE isn’t promising to act right after he gets caught fucking up time and time again.
Love is him acting right from the start because he doesn’t want to fuck up.
Love isn’t telling your grown man he needs to change: love is a grown man changing on his own because he can’t imagine life without you.
The super power law of F!ck YES!!
We all deserve wonderful relationships.
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“I think the saddest people always try their hardest to make people happy because they know what it’s like to feel absolutely worthless and they don’t want anyone else to feel like that.”
– Robin Williams
It is just a chapter in your story but your ending will be amazing. It hurts, it cuts DEEP, yet despite the pain, tears, you can focus on YOU. We don’t need anymore trauma bonds with a narcissistic personality (100% manipulator) – its soul destroying.
Men have an issue feeling their emotions. Big boys don’t cry – they don’t want to feel their emotions. They need to be physically strong and emotionally soft.
If a man is not telepathic, you cannot expect him to protect you from the unseen.
This is *essential* for pure-hearted ones, who need protection & provision beyond the physical.
A man without feeling- intelligence cannot get a woman like her excited, nor can he protect or understand her at depth.
Mystical women are not meant to settle for basic men, they are meant for extraordinary men.
Men who are also tapped in & ready to defend.
