By Lynnie Stein / May 3, 2022

A Return to LOVE

What’s meant for you will always feel natural, calm, and clear, not forced, chaotic or confusing. It inspires you, and picks you up mentally. It doesn’t drain you, or stress you out.

The love you deserve will never take you for granted. It will be kind and patient. This love will make you feel safe and cared for. You will feel seen and heard. You will show up in the fullness of yourself and feel accepted. This love will be worth the wait. This love will show you parts of yourself that you never thought existed. This love will be incomparable to anything that you have ever experienced. This will be the LOVE you deserve… the real deal…a return to LOVE forever!!!

Your soul wants to love them eternally with all your heart until the ocean dries and the sun never shines.

A soulmate is not found.

A soulmate is recognized.

Giving someone a piece of your soul is better than giving a piece of your heart.

Because souls are eternal.

No matter how bright it burns or how painful it is, Love must be given with all heart and soul, Everything ends someday, but LOVE is eternal.

Soulmates don’t grow on trees, that’s for sure.

It’s not the easiest thing to find them.

And if you did manage to find them, it’s possible that you were not able to keep them.

Waving goodbye to your soulmate is a pain that feels nothing less than unbearable.

  • It feels like all the strings inside you are breaking, like you are not sure anymore who you are and where are you going from now on.
  • As if a part of your soul was torn out.
  • Your friends will tell you ‘It’s not the end of the world’.

But actually, it feels exactly as if it was.

Always Choose Peace in a relationship with your loved one or with self

  • The challenges can be your greatest teacher.
  • They will teach you what needs to be avoided to have a peaceful productive life.
  • I truly don’t believe that you or anyone could ever be not good enough.
  • I do believe you could not be compatible enough for certain people, and that is perfectly ok.

We meet people along our path for a reason, a season or a lifetime.

  • Not all of them are meant to stay.

Everyone deserves to be with someone who adores every aspect of you.

Some people come into our lives as reflections of our insecurities, who don’t treat us well in order to help us become aware of these insecurities and work on them.

That is where Self Love Enters

  • So, there is absolutely no need to cling onto the ones who make us feel like we are not good enough.
  • As soon as that feeling arises, it’s a clear sign you are not compatible with each other.

Enter the magical unicorn

  • With divine synchronicity to help direct you to the fulfilment of your dreams.
  • You will listen and share each others dreams.
  • Two people to come together and bring the best out in each other.
  • Someone who you have an effortless connection with.
  • To love like no other.
  • Loyalty, honesty & respect.
  • Commitment & Healthy boundaries.
  • You will always be a Priority never just an option!!
  • Boundaries are like “guidelines’ for your relationships – they demonstrate what you consider safe & acceptable behaviour & how you expect people to treat you.
  • Setting boundaries takes practice but so worth it for a healthy beautiful relationship that we all deserve.
  • A connection where you grow to understand each other.
  • Protect each others happiness and love like no other.
  • Treat each other with compassion and respect and care for each other.
  • A tender, unhurried, stable, powerful & fulfilling love.
  • When you are meant to be with someone it should be easy – it flows.
  • Because you both feel safe & anchored.
  • A healthy relationship is not about finding the perfect match, it’s about choosing an ideal mate…where two independent people make a deal they will help the other person be the best version of themselves.
  • You finally understand why things didn’t work out with anyone else.

It is love that ignites your heart

  • Causing unexplainable happiness.
  • Feels like an untamed force.

Gives you hope where there was none before

  • The feeling of complete inner peace.

Your love becomes infinite

  • You allow each other to give love freely & unconditionally to one another eternally.

Your love becomes poetry & you express it like stealing roses from their lips, placing onto their ears so they might stop & listen to your heart beat.

Yesterday, tomorrow & the day after that…

  • Your soul wants to love them eternally with all your heart until the ocean dries and the sun never shines.

“Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage.”

Lao Tzu

Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate.

  • Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.
  • It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us.

We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous?

Actually, who are you not to be?

You are a child of God / the universe. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won’t feel insecure around you.

We are all meant to shine, as children do.

We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us.

It’s not just in some of us; it’s in everyone.

And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same.

As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.”

– Marianne Williamson, A Return to Love

What is a soulmate?

If your heart is broken, make art with the pieces

The Art of Transformation is the only way to patch together your shattered heart.

And, if you can help heal or ease the pain of others while in the process, you take your own healing up an Octave.

Love is a strange thing and has a ghostly feeling when all is over and hearts are parted from one another.

I do not talk about my past loves, because they are now petals on the wind.

Art entwined in the complexities of my past relationships are paintings that are deeply personal, never to be seen by anyone. The paintings are boxed and stored away indefinitely.

I have not seen them in years and I do not wish to see them any more.

~ RapaSHI

What breaks hearts?

  • Heartbreak is when you realize the only person you ever loved, prioritized and felt that he/she was your destiny has left you in your worst times.

At the end, I have learned… don’t ever prioritize anyone above you.

You will end up losing yourself and severe identity crisis.

Everything gets better when it’s allowed to heal.

Broken does not mean destroyed. Keep reminding yourself of that.

“I Am Enough”

“More than enough is my new standard”

So if he was right for you, it would break his heart open to see you hurt in the very way he hurts you.

– butterflies’ rising

No one is going to help you get better.

No one is going to heal you – to make you get over it and move on.

Sometimes you have to repair what’s broken on your own.

And sometimes you have to face what hurts by yourself.

– r.m.drake

Behaviour speaks… I need not listen to someone’s apology:

I’ll watch for it.

I’ve learned not to let someone’s words blind me from their behaviour.

– steve maraboli

Remember, you are a

& worth finding.

  • Worth knowing.
  • Worth loving.
  • You and all your one million layers.

Some of the kindest souls I know have lived in a world that was not so kind to them.

Some of the best human beings I know have been through so much at the hands of others, and they still love deeply, they still care.

Sometimes, it’s the people who have been hurt the most who refuse to be hardened in this world, because they would never want to make another person feel the same way they have felt.

If that isn’t something to be in awe of, I don’t know what is.

Bianca Sparacin


Begin with simple scripting.

Take our a piece of paper and write down every quality you want in another person.

Make sure it includes commitment.

Then become that person.

So the real ? is… Would you go out with you?

As Ghandi used to say – “be the change you wish to see in the world”

Become the person that you want to attract.

Remember we attract what we are, not what we want.

Whether you’re on the receiving end or dishing it out, the silent treatment is toxic, period. The only thing that will…is candid communication.

I don’t know who needs to hear this but the silent treatment is toxic behaviour.

Mel robbins

Be a reflection of what you’d like to receive.

If you want love, give love.

If you want truth, be truthful.

If you want respect, give respect.

What you give out will return to you.

and if, when it is all over

I am asked, what I did with my life-

I want to be able to say-

“I offered love”

Ten years from now, make sure you can say that you chose your life, you didn’t settle for it.

A shout out to everyone who is trying right now.

Big hugs & Love, Xo,


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